Tips for Discussing a Prenuptial Agreement with Your Future Husband or Wife

Mar 26, 2021

A prenuptial agreement is a contract entered into by two people who are planning to get married. Most prenuptial agreements address topics like alimony and the division of marital property. Given the fact that prenuptial agreements address divorce-related issues, many couples are reluctant to discuss them. After all, no one enters into a marriage planning on getting a divorce. However, given the high divorce rate in the U.S., it’s a sad fact that many marriages end in divorce. Therefore, a prenuptial agreement is often a good idea. In this article, we examine ways to discuss a prenuptial agreement with your future spouse.

What Is a Prenuptial Agreement?  

A prenuptial agreement is a contract entered into prior to marriage that addresses divorce-related issues like:  

  • How property will be divided;
  • How debt will be divided;
  • Whether one spouse will pay alimony; and
  • Other issues that aren’t related to children.

How to Discuss a Prenuptial Agreement

As noted above, discussing a prenuptial agreement with your future spouse can be uncomfortable. The last thing you or your significant other probably want to think about before you get married is divorce. Below are some tips to help you get the conversation started. 

Pick a good time: Timing is everything when it comes to discussing a prenuptial agreement with your partner. Try to pick a time when you will both be calm and capable of having a long talk. If you or your fiancé are tired or cranky, the discussion is unlikely to be productive.

Be honest: Honestly explain your reasons for wanting a prenuptial agreement. If you’re concerned about any financial disparity between you and your partner, say so. Your fiancé is less likely to resist a prenuptial agreement if he or she feels you’re being honest about the subject.

Reassure your partner: Be sure to let your fiancé know that you aren’t suggesting a prenuptial agreement because you plan on getting a divorce. Rather, tell him or her that the agreement is a practical document that can protect both of you.

Listen: Finally, hear your partner out. After all, the two of you are in this together. Encourage your fiancé to share his or her thoughts, questions, and concerns with you. By actively listening and responding to your fiancé’s concerns, the two of you are more likely to end up on the same page regarding your desire for a prenuptial agreement. 

Gwinnett County Prenuptial Agreement Attorney 

If you are considering creating a prenuptial agreement, you should contact an experienced Gwinnett County prenuptial agreement attorney. At Carter/Pilgrim, our experienced family law attorney will assist you in executing a prenuptial agreement that is satisfactory to you and your spouse. Experienced family law attorney Amy Carter has the knowledge and experience necessary to help ensure that your prenuptial agreement is effective and legally sound. Please contact us today to schedule a free consultation.

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